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Sex & Relationships

Emily Flake answers your questions about uncoupling, sending nudes and how to initiate sex
, October 9, 2023
Sure, sex is great, but if you really want to make her smile, try these things instead
, September 25, 2023
Emily Flake answers your questions about jealousy, perfumes that smell like Mom and getting adventurous in the bedroom
, September 7, 2023
Emily Flake answers your questions about marriage therapy, back scratches and mother-in-laws.
, August 23, 2023
Single and ready to mingle? Here’s how to do it without a Wi-Fi connection
, August 7, 2023
Here are the shorts Gen X women love (and don’t love) on their men
, July 24, 2023
Emily Flake answers your questions about plastic surgeries, happy (fictional) marriages and Walter White cosplay
, July 10, 2023
Emily Flake answers your questions about bicurious wives, empty nest second acts and Coldplay
, June 26, 2023
Emily Flake answers your burning questions about love, sex and Ted Lasso mustaches
, June 12, 2023
Your sex life isn’t dead, it just needs a jump start
, May 29, 2023